Vaginismus is treatable: a guide to therapy options
Pelvic floor therapy, dilators and counselling help most women. Here is how treatment works.
Vaginismus is an involuntary tightening of the muscles around the vagina that makes penetration painful or impossible, including sex, tampons or examinations. It is not a woman’s fault and is very treatable. Most women improve with education, pelvic floor physiotherapy, gradual dilator training and counselling, often with a supportive partner involved.
What is vaginismus?
With vaginismus, the pelvic floor muscles tighten automatically when penetration is attempted, even when you want it. Some women have had it from the first attempt at sex; others develop it after childbirth, an infection, painful sex or a distressing experience. Desire and arousal are often normal.
What causes vaginismus?
- Fear of pain or anticipation that the first time will hurt
- Previous painful sex, infection or examination
- Anxiety, or strict or negative messages about sex
- Past sexual trauma (in some women)
- Conditions such as vulvodynia or vaginal dryness
How is vaginismus diagnosed?
A gynaecologist or sexual medicine doctor will talk with you about your symptoms and history. Any examination is done gently, at your pace, and only with your consent. The doctor will also check for other causes of pain, such as infection or skin conditions.
What are the treatment options?
Treatment combines several steps. Learning how the body works and how the muscles respond reduces fear. A pelvic floor physiotherapist teaches relaxation and breathing techniques. Vaginal dilators of gradually increasing size help the muscles get used to penetration, at your own pace. Counselling or sex therapy addresses anxiety and helps couples rebuild intimacy without pressure. In a few cases, doctors use botulinum toxin injections.
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Is vaginismus permanent?
No. Most women who complete treatment are able to have comfortable penetrative sex, although progress takes weeks to months.
Does vaginismus affect fertility?
It does not affect your ability to conceive, but it can make conception difficult. Treatment, or assisted options, can help.
Should my partner be involved?
It often helps. A partner who understands the condition can support exercises and reduce pressure around sex.
References
- International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health. Guidance on genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder.
- Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists. Patient information on painful sex.
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Gynaecologist & Sexual Medicine in Chennai with 12 years of experience.
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